2015 Book #274: WE NEVER ASKED FOR WINGS by Vanessa Diffenbaugh

We Never Asked For Wings by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
ISBN: 9780553392319 (hardcover)
ISBN: 9780553392326 (ebook)
ASIN: B00R04IQFA (Kindle edition)
Publication date: August 18, 2015 
Publisher: Ballantine Books

From the beloved New York Times bestselling author of The Language of Flowers comes her much-anticipated new novel about young love, hard choices, and hope against all odds.

For fourteen years, Letty Espinosa has worked three jobs around San Francisco to make ends meet while her mother raised her children—Alex, now fifteen, and Luna, six—in their tiny apartment on a forgotten spit of wetlands near the bay. But now Letty’s parents are returning to Mexico, and Letty must step up and become a mother for the first time in her life.

Navigating this new terrain is challenging for Letty, especially as Luna desperately misses her grandparents and Alex, who is falling in love with a classmate, is unwilling to give his mother a chance. Letty comes up with a plan to help the family escape the dangerous neighborhood and heartbreaking injustice that have marked their lives, but one wrong move could jeopardize everything she’s worked for and her family’s fragile hopes for the future.

Vanessa Diffenbaugh blends gorgeous prose with compelling themes of motherhood, undocumented immigration, and the American Dream in a powerful and prescient story about family. 

Letty Espinosa is a single mother with two children and she’s never had the responsibility of raising her children, until now. Her parents have always been there and willing to pick up the slack while Letty worked to support the family, but her parents have returned to Mexico. We Never Asked for Wings by Vanessa Diffenbaugh explores the relationship between Letty and her children as they discover how to become a family and Letty discovers what it means to be a mother.

Letty had her oldest child, fifteen-year-old Alex when she was a teenager. She thought she was in love but didn’t want to burden her boyfriend at the time, Wes, with the responsibility of being a parent. She knew that Wes was meant for more. Her daughter Luna is six-years-old and has always depended on her grandparents and her older brother Alex for guidance. Sadly, Letty doesn’t have the first clue about parenting as evidenced by the fact that she leaves her children at home without any money while she takes her mother to Mexico. Upon her return to the US, Letty realizes that she has to step up to the plate and become the responsible adult. No more alcoholic binges, no more late night parties, and no more working nights and sleeping the day away. She finds a job bartending at the airport during the day and is finally there for her children. She lies about her address to get her gifted son into an exclusive school. Life isn’t going great, but it is becoming more manageable until Alex discovers who his father is and his father confronts Letty about having a teenage son he never knew about. If having Wes back in the picture wasn’t enough to deal with, Letty is romantically attracted to a coworker and her son Alex is in a relationship that is getting too serious in Letty’s mind.

We Never Asked for Wings provides a fascinating glimpse into the lives and loves of the Espinosa family. We witness an inept mother striving to be and do better at parenting. We see the angst and drama of teens in love and making bad decisions. We watch as this family and their friends suffer the consequences of poor decision-making. But most important of all, we watch this mother and two children become a family. To say that Ms. Diffenbaugh has a way with words is a massive understatement. Her writing immerses the reader into the lives of these characters and it was hard, at least for me, not to rejoice with their small victories and suffer through their pains and disappointments. We Never Asked for Wings presents well-developed characters with realistic action and settings. If you’re looking for a story about love, life, and family, then look no more, We Never Asked for Wings is the book to read. I enjoyed this book as much as I enjoyed The Language of Flowers and I look forward to reading more from Ms. Diffenbaugh in the future.

Disclaimer: I received a digital copy of this book for review purposes from the publisher via NetGalley. I was not paid, required, or otherwise obligated to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

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World Book Night 2013

I’m pleased to announce that I was once again selected to be a World Book Night Giver. This year I’ll be giving out copies of The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh

My original plan was to give out books at the Charleston (WV) Town Center Mall in a concerted effort coordinated by the Kanawha County Public Library with other area World Book Night givers. My revised plan is to give out books at a local charity event, Holiday In Pink – A Breast Cancer and Health Awareness Event. Thanks are offered to the Holiday Inn & Suites of South Charleston (WV) for graciously allowing me the privilege of giving World Book Night books at this event!

What is World Book Night (WBN)? 

Click here for information and the answer. Each WBN giver will be provided 20 free (yes, FREE) copies of a book to giveaway to light or non-readers in an effort to promote reading and the love of reading. It is estimated that over 500,000 books will be given away this year.

Why April 23rd? 

This date was chosen for several reasons; April 23rd is the UNESCO International Day of the Book AND it’s William Shakespeare’s birthday. 

Is every WBN giver giving away the same book?

No. This year each WBN giver was able to choose from 32 different titles, so each giver will probably be giving away a different book. I chose The Language of Flowers because I read it and loved it (helps to know about the book being given away). To see the complete list of books for 2013 click here.

Ooh…that book is on my TBR list can I get a free copy?

No. Sorry but the whole purpose of WBN is to give books to light readers and non-readers, not to family or fellow book lovers.

If you’d like to get involved with WBN, donate funds or even sign up to be a WBN giver for 2014, then please visit WBN at: www.us.worldbooknight.org/

I’d like to personally thank World Book Night, all of the supporters of WBN, fellow WBN givers, and especially the publishers for making this event possible. I’d also like to thank the Kanawha County Public Library and the Charleston Town Center Mall for their assistance in this year’s World Book Night.

Happy Reading!